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A good blowjob should make your partner weak, tremble, and go completely wild. If a blowjob is not the ultimate goal of your sexual encounter, it should still leave them craving more. Whether a blowjob is the appetizer, main course, or dessert, let’s dive into the art of giving a blowjob!
The Charm of Foreplay
Before you begin, remember that foreplay is very important. You have the power to drive your partner crazy. You have the power to get what you want after a blowjob. Invest the effort you want to receive in return, and tell them what you want.
Technique One: Enthusiasm
The first technique you need is enthusiasm. Before you start, tell them you’ve been thinking about this all day. “I”ve been waiting for this moment to give you a blowjob and make you feel good for a long time” will immediately let them feel your excitement. Your skills are important, but your enthusiasm is even more crucial. Let your partner feel your desire and hunger to touch them.
Besides telling your partner how you fantasize about touching them, here are some other ways to show your enthusiasm:
Initiate touch frequently
Give them a deep kiss
Pull them into the bedroom or wherever you plan to do the deed
Push them onto the bed or couch, then take off their pants
Wear sexy lingerie
Use dirty talk or sexting before you’re alone together.
Technique Two: Tongue Action
In addition to licking from the base to the tip, use your tongue to tease and please. Gently lick the tip of their penis because the tip is usually the most sensitive part. If your partner is uncircumcised, licking the underside where the tip connects to the shaft (the frenulum) is also very sensitive.
Use your tongue to lick the vein running along the underside of their penis, then swirl around the tip. The wetter your mouth, the better it feels for your partner. If you have a dry mouth, you can eat a spoonful of honey or chew a piece of gum beforehand to increase moisture.
You can also stimulate your gag reflex by deep-throating, which will produce more saliva. But remember, not everyone likes deep-throating, so make sure you communicate your partner’s preferences.
Technique Three: Using Hands and Fingers
Hands and fingers are also important techniques! Hands are very useful in blowjobs because they help keep the penis where you need it for your comfort. In addition, stroking the penis while using your tongue or mouth on the tip provides dual stimulation, which might bring your partner to climax. Make sure there’s enough saliva or lube, but maintain a comfortable grip, moving your hand up and down in sync with your mouth or letting your hand and mouth meet in the middle.
Technique Five: Incorporating Toys
Want to further enhance your blowjob skills? It’s time to add toys! Use a toy along with your mouth. For example, a vibrator is the perfect size and shape to allow you to stimulate your partner while using your mouth. Combining toys with blowjobs can provide your partner with immense pleasure. Try the Magic Flamingo, a G-spot vibrator designed for both local and long-distance couples. Despite its small size, it offers 10 manual speeds and unlimited modes controlled through the Magic Motion app.
If your partner enjoys anal stimulation, you can insert a butt plug for them! Or slowly pull out anal beads during the blowjob. If you feel up to the challenge, try using a wand vibrator on their perineum. This might be tricky depending on body positioning, but it’s worth trying to give your partner some external prostate stimulation along with the amazing blowjob.
Despite the word “job” being part of “blowjob,” don’t think of it as work! You want to please your partner, you crave their taste, you want to see them tremble and hear them moan because of your skills. Even if you’re not confident in your blowjob skills, remember to show your enthusiasm! Enthusiasm for giving pleasure will make any blowjob better than a lack thereof.
Conclusion
Now, go and put these techniques to practice! You are going to give an amazing blowjob to a very lucky person, and they will be over the moon thrilled by the pleasure you bring them. Use your sexual prowess and wet mouth to make their toes curl.
