How To Buy A Sex Toy

How To Buy A Sex Toy

Are you thinking about buying your first sex toy but not sure how to go about it? Stepping into a sex toy store or browsing sex toys online can definitely be overwhelming. With so many different products, shapes and prices, it’s hard to know where to start.

These 6 questions will help you browse and choose with confidence:

Sex Toy Varieties

Did you click on an online catalogue because you were intrigued by vibrators? Did your friend get a butt plug and now you’re curious too?

Q1: What Sex Toy Tickles Your Fancy?

When choosing a toy, follow whatever it was that first piqued your interest, and let that guide your shopping journey. If you’re at a brick and mortar shop where you can play with display items, don’t be shy—turn them on, feel them up, and learn how they work!

As you learn, you’ll get more ideas about which toys are likely to suit you and which aren’t. If you’re not able to play with the toys before purchasing, read reviews from consumers who have tried them.

But what if you have no idea where to start or what you’re into? No worries, we’ve got a few suggestions for popular first-time toys:

For the clitoris and vulva, check out a bullet vibrator.

For the penis, have a look at a penis stroker.

For butt play, consider a small butt plug.

Using a Sex Toy

Some sex toys are designed for solo use, and some are better suited to partner play. Do you plan to use it mostly by yourself or with a partner? Maybe you’d like the option to do both?

Q2: How Do You Want To Use Your Sex Toy?

Read online and ask the store clerk about different ways the toys can be used. (Think creatively here, there are often fun and naughty ways to use a toy that might not be advertised.) If you are planning to use your toy with a partner, make sure you talk with them before buying it—better yet, go shopping together!

Sex Toy Prices

Sex toy prices range from super affordable to exorbitantly expensive. If you’re on a budget, and looking for an affordable starting place, there are a number of good toys for under $25. With a larger budget, you have more options; a high-quality vibrator can cost up to $200-300.

Q3: Whats Your Budget For A Sex Toy?

Regardless of budget, consider starting off with something on the lower end of the price range and upgrading later when you have a better idea of what you like.

Sex Toy Materials

There are so many different materials that sex toys can be made of: plastic, rubber, steel, wood, silicone, ceramic, to name but a few. Some materials are hard, some soft, some are body-safe and some are best avoided, and they come in at a range of price points.

Q4: What Is Your Sex Toy Made Of?

Silicone is a top sex toy material since it’s non-toxic and easy to clean, but it also tends to be more expensive. If a silicone toy is beyond your price range, go for a hard plastic one. Avoid softer, jelly-like plastic toys, however, as they can leach harmful chemicals and are much harder to clean.

Sex Toy Sizes

Your eyes can be bigger than your orifices! As a general rule, it’s better to start smaller than to be overly ambitious.

Q5: What Size Sex Toy Should You Get?

If the toy you bought ends up being a little on the small side you can still enjoy it. But if the toy you bought is too big, then it’ll be uncomfortable and you probably won’t use it much. Remember, you can always upgrade to something bigger next time.

Cleaning Sex Toys

Your sex toy cleaning routine will depend on what the toy is made of and whether or not it has electrical parts.

Q6: How Do You Clean Your Sex Toy?

If the toy has a motor, pay attention to how waterproof the toy is (or isn’t), so as not to damage it. If the toy doesn’t have a motor, you may be able to boil it for three minutes and be good to go! Special toy cleaner sprays and wipes are convenient, but not necessary: gentle soap and water is just as effective.

Toys Are More Fun With Lube!

Don’t forget the lube! Sex toys are always more enjoyable when used together with a good lubricant.

Where to Buy Sex Toys

If considering budget and high quality materials, you can choose to buy at It’s budget-friendly and has many different kinds for you to refer to. If you are a sex tech fan, it will help you! Every toy can connect to the app, making seamless use a reality.


Through the guidance of these seven questions, we believe you can browse and choose sex toys more confidently, enjoying more pleasure. Buying sex toys is not only a new experience in exploring your body, but also an important way to enhance intimacy between you and your partner. We hope this article can help you find the sex toy that suits you and embark on a new journey of pleasure.

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