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"Sex" is not just about penetrative intercourse. Here are some ways you can enjoy amazing sex without putting anything into anyone. You might have seen me use the term "penetrative sex" here - just to be clear, this refers to things like penis in vagina or sex toy in anus. Non-penetrative sex is still sex. It carries less risk of STIs or pregnancy, but it is also much more enjoyable for many people. Many people need different types of sexual touch to enjoy sex. This is what this article is about.
The Charm of Whispering
Whispering and light breathing in someone's ear can be very pleasurable for some people, while others might not enjoy it as much. Whispering is also a great way of communicating, making it easier than saying things out loud. Describing how good something feels, or how sexy the other person is, or asking about their feelings, or if they want to do something else or be touched somewhere, can be very sexy.
Biting and Nibbling
Some people like to gently bite their partner's earlobe, neck, or shoulder while kissing, which can be very stimulating for some, but possibly unpleasant for others. Therefore, it is best to ask how they feel about being bitten before doing so. For example, "Do you like love bites?" "Do you want to be nibbled?" "Can you gently bite my neck?"
The Magic of Stroking
Stroking and massaging feel great. Stroking through trousers, leggings, tights, or pants can also feel very good. If this feels good, then stroking around the genitals can be very enjoyable too.
The Pleasure of Grinding
I know it sounds silly, but I just love grinding. It feels like we're having full sex but with our clothes on. It's very hot and completely safe, which is why it's good.
Some sex toys are also designed to be very good at rubbing your sensitive parts. For example, the Magic Zenith massager wand from Magic Motion is very addictive with its powerful and rumbly vibrations, giving you intense orgasms and sensational pleasure.
Grinding can also be done naked, but remember to keep it safe by avoiding direct genital contact or wearing underwear, or using condoms/dams.
The Fun of Licking
Even if you're completely naked, it doesn't mean you have to have penetrative sex. Licking and kissing each other's bodies can be very arousing. Some people have very sensitive nipples and enjoy having them played with.
Exploring the Body
I like being lightly touched in places I've never been touched before, like my wrists, the back of my arms, my kneecaps, then trying some more obvious places.
Different parts of the body can feel very sexy and sensitive. Explore with your partner where they like to be touched. Try touching yourself and your partner in different ways: sometimes a firm touch feels good, sometimes a light touch with fingernails is better.
If it's cold, you can try dripping warm (not hot) drinks on each other and then licking it off. For example, hot chocolate or mulled wine (for adults). If it's hot, you can try ice cream, or even an ice cube - but never inside anyone and be very careful around the genitals.
The Art of Teasing
My advice is to take it slow and build up the excitement. Don't just stick your tongue in their mouth and your hand down their pants! That just turns me off.
Taking it slow is good because no one feels pressured to go further than they want to, and also because it can be very hot. However, it can be frustrating if one person wants to go further than the other. It's important to talk about this. Talk about what you want to do, what you are comfortable doing, and what you want your partner to do.
Summary
In this article, we explored various non-penetrative sex methods. Whether it's whispering, light biting, stroking, grinding, licking, or exploring the body, each method can bring unique pleasure. The key is communication, understanding each other's preferences and boundaries, to enjoy more wonderful intimate moments.
