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When you and your long-distance partner are in different places, sexting is a good way to enhance your relationship. However, knowing how to use this method appropriately is a science. If you are still confused, please read this blog.
Building Intimacy Through Text
First of all, expressing desire through text should be a fun and enjoyable experience.
The choice of language is key. Some people prefer vulgar expressions, filled with straightforward descriptions of the body and vivid scenario descriptions, while others tend to prefer a softer approach, with more emotional elements and euphemistic language. Understanding the preferences of both you and your partner, and finding a balance between the two, is very important so that no one feels bored, overwhelmed, or turned off by language that is too explicit.
In addition, it is equally important to clarify the terms that both of you feel comfortable using when talking about each other’s body parts. Saying something like, “I love when you mention my...” can help both parties find an easy entry point and might even lead to a deeper understanding of each other.
Content warnings are equally important. Sexting can make us bold and willing to try things that we might not in real life. This sense of adventure can be thrilling, but it can also push the boundaries of what your partner feels comfortable with, potentially leading to discomfort. Generally speaking, if something makes them uncomfortable in real life, it’s likely to have the same effect during sexting. Therefore, it’s best to communicate with your partner beforehand to clarify these boundaries.
As with all activities involving sexual intimacy, communication is always key. Moreover, the conversation about setting, language, and consent can, in itself, become very sexy.
How To Start Sexting
Sexting is a bit like improvisational theater, only hotter—it’s a collaboration generated by the collision of your thoughts with those of your partner. The first rule of improve theater is to accept what your scene partner gives you, build on it, and then volley it back—this is the “yes, and” principle.
So, when you want to learn how to start sexting, how do you take that first “yes” step? “What are you wearing?” is a classic opener, but there are also other basic frameworks you can use to stoke the fire into a blazing inferno.
Asking questions is also a great way to do this. We often find it easier to express our deepest desires through text than in person. You could ask your partner what they’ve read or watched recently that turns them on, or ask if there’s a sexual experience they’ve always wanted to try but never had.
Compliments are another effective method. Is there a particular body part or sexual move of your partner’s that you can’t stop thinking about? Do they turn you on in a unique way? Does their presence distract you from your daily tasks? Tell them these things and see what happens.
Planning is a clever way to heighten anticipation. What do you want them to do to you the next time you see each other? What do you want them to wear, or not wear? Have you fantasized about a future setting where you get intimate with them? Do you have a toy you want to try, or a favorite porn movie you’d love to watch together? Your partner is likely very interested in knowing these desires.
Enhancing The Experience With New Sexting Way
Magic Motion is a brand dedicated to reducing the physical distance between partners, and they have created a new kind of sex tech that goes beyond traditional messaging apps. They have launched a feature called Chat Control, a new feature within the Magic Motion app. This feature changes sexting, allowing couples to share text, images, voice, and real-time motions. Imagine sending flirty messages to your partner and being able to manipulate the sensations they experience in real time. With Chat Control, both you and your partner can elevate your sexual experience. This feature turns your smartphone into a remote control, syncing your physical and emotional connection. Whether it's sending fun vibration patterns or syncing the toy's movements to your favorite music, Chat Control will make the distance between you feel smaller.
