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In today's world, long-distance sex toys are no longer just for couples in long-distance relationships. As more and more couples find themselves unable to see each other regularly, long-distance Bluetooth vibrators have become a way to bridge the gap of intimacy caused by distance. Whether you are separated due to quarantine or for other reasons, using these high-tech toys can not only maintain your intimate relationship but also add new excitement to your sex life.
This article will explore how to maintain intimate connections while apart using long-distance sex toys and offer tips on communicating needs and expectations when you’re in a long-distance relationship. Additionally, we will discuss maintaining connection through traditional methods like sexting. Finally, we will look ahead to the future, anticipating the joy of reuniting with your partner.
Expressing Needs and Expectations
When you and your partner are apart, it's particularly important to regularly check in on each other's needs. Having a clear discussion upfront can help avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings. You might consider the following:
How often would you ideally like to talk to your partner, and for how long?
How many video calls (FaceTime, Skype, Zoom) do you prefer per week?
Are you interested in remote intimacy, via phone or video?
Do you enjoy receiving spontaneous sexy texts during the day? Does it fit into your schedule?
Does regular communication make you feel secure? If so, set a consistent check-in time with your partner and inform them of any sudden schedule changes.
Remember, stress affects sexual desire differently for everyone. Understand that desires may fluctuate during stressful times, and that’s okay.
Lastly, everyone wants to feel cared for. Ask yourselves: How are you supporting each other?
If you still want to keep the sexual connection alive long-distance, certain toys can make that easier while also serving as a way to check in on each other.
Recommended Long-Distance Sex Toys
Sex toys designed for long-distance couples have come a long way in recent years. Apps have become more feature-rich and user-friendly, and the connectivity of Bluetooth vibrators has improved dramatically.
These Bluetooth vibrators aren’t just for long-distance relationships; they can be used in the bedroom like traditional remote vibrators, or for playful situations in public. For example, compact wearable vibrators are easy to hide and carry, making them convenient for discreet use in public.
So what are the best long-distance vibrators? Magic Motion has long been a leader in the field, offering a variety of options, from butt plugs to penis rings, and from rabbit vibrators to wand vibrators. These toys are known for their powerful vibrations and come highly recommended.
How to Use Long-Distance Sex Toys
To connect a vibrator to Bluetooth, you first need to download the app. These apps are usually available for free in the App Store or Google Play. The name of the app (e.g. Magic Motion app) will be clearly marked on the toy's packaging and instructions.
Next, sync the toy with its app. The vibrator user needs to turn on the vibrator, launch the app, and follow the app's instructions to sync. The user's phone acts as a Bluetooth antenna, and both parties need to turn on the phone's Bluetooth and ensure that the signal is stable. Once connected, the vibrator will work no matter how far apart the two of you are, truly making the pleasure unlimited!
The vibrator user can send a pairing request to their partner, which can be done by sending a social media invite or directly entering an invitation code. Once the request is accepted, both parties can start exploring the various connection options. You can use chat, voice control, and many other manual control functions. The vibrator user can hand over control to the partner at any time, and the partner can then fully control the vibrator, change its functions, and adjust the intensity. This adds more possibilities to your sex life, whether it is experiencing the pleasure of dominance and submission, or simply letting your partner control the toy at the right moment.
Sexting Tips
Every long-distance vibrator app includes a chat function, so it’s helpful to enhance your sexting skills before starting to control the vibrator—or you can do it the old-fashioned way, via text message.
The best sexting is an erotic conversation that expresses your desire for the other person and what you want to do to them right now. You don’t need to be Shakespeare; what’s important is expressing what you want to do, how turned on you are, and listening to your partner’s response. Both partners need to be willing to express their desires in writing, think about what they want and how they feel, and put it into words.
Planning for the Reunion
Ultimately, we need to be realistic and acknowledge that if you are strongly attached to someone, being separated can be tough. There’s no real substitute for a simple hug.
So, rather than focusing on what’s missing right now, start fantasizing about your future reunion. Where will you go for dinner and drinks? What will you eat? Will you fly somewhere tropical, take a fun road trip, or just chill together with a latte at Starbucks? This anticipation is exciting and helps keep us positive.
Conclusion
Every couple is unique, just as every individual is unique. So figuring out what you and your partner need to maintain your relationship when you can't see each other might be a learning process. And it's okay to figure it out as you go along.
As long as you’re staying connected—whether through phone calls, video chats, long-distance toys, and/or sexting—you’re keeping your relationship alive. Support each other and stay well.
