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Summer has arrived—has your body heated up yet? Not just thermostatically, of course. The rising temperature also stirs passion, both sexual and emotional. But in the real world, sweaty and humid weather knows to kill the mood in no time. Chill out—a couple of sneaky tips and the right "cool-down" helpers can make this hot season into a full-blown erotic adventure.
Whether solo, having intimate time with a partner, or playing around with BDSM scenarios, temperature play is a combination of stimulation, novelty, and heat-beating pleasure. No elaborate equipment needed—just some common household items, along with a pinch of creativity, can provide that cool sensation your body needs during the heat.
What Is Temperature Play?
Temperature play uses hot or cold sensations to stimulate the body in new ways. It can be soft and teasing or intense and edgy, depending on how you use it.
From cool breaths to warm wax, ice cubes to heated touch—it’s all about contrast and consent. While perfect for summer, it’s just as fun for heating things up in winter.
How to Play with Temperature This Summer: 6 Creative Ways to Get Hot and Cold
1. Cool Down with Waterproof Toys
When it’s blazing hot, the most obvious way to cool off is to get wet—whether that’s a cold shower, bath, or pool. Why not take a waterproof toy with you to the water for extra fun?
But be careful: not all toys labeled “waterproof” are safe for full submersion. Splash-proof or water-resistant toys can handle a shower, but only fully waterproof or submersible toys are safe for tubs or pools. Always read the instructions, especially for toys with motors. When in doubt, go for a non-motorized silicone toy like a dildo or butt plug.
For example, Magic Motion products are fully waterproof smart tools. You can enjoy hands-free stimulation while you shower, all while staying cool and sexy. Just connect to the Magic Motion app, and the fun begins. Place your order now to enjoy an exclusive 15% summer discount!
2. Chill Your Toys & Lube for an Icy Body Treat
If you’re using metal or glass toys, run them under cold water or pop them into the fridge for a few minutes before play. The icy touch against warm skin delivers an instant wake-up for the senses. (In winter, you can reverse it and warm them instead.)
Lubricant can also be chilled briefly before use for an extra surprise of cool sensation. But never freeze toys or lube—extreme cold can make materials stick to skin and cause injury.
For convenience, store your lube in a cool drawer or cabinet near your bed so it’s ready whenever you are.
Tip: If hot weather causes uncomfortable thigh chafing, silicone-based lubricant can be a game-changer. It works during sex and doubles as a skin-saver—functional and sexy.
3. Use Ice Cubes—The Most Accessible Pleasure Toy
The most ordinary yet effective temperature play tool? Ice cubes.
Let one glide slowly across the neck, collarbone, nipples, or inner thighs. As it melts and drips, it leaves a sensual cooling trail. You can even hold an ice cube in your mouth and stimulate your partner orally, or sip ice water before kissing or going down—adding an unexpected temperature twist to otherwise familiar foreplay.
This hot-cold contrast intensifies sensation and transforms simple acts into a full-on temperature adventure.
Important note: If using frozen treats like fruit or popsicles, keep it external only—sugars can disrupt vaginal balance and cause infections.
4. Combine Hot & Cold for Mind-Blowing Contrast
Want to level up your sensory play? Combine temperature with impact play.
After spanking, scratching, or biting, follow up by rubbing an ice cube on the freshly sensitive skin. The chill hits hard and fast, especially where nerve endings are already tingling. It’s an electrifying combination that many find irresistible.
You can also pair cold toys with warming lube. These lubes usually create a tingling warmth (not burning), which when paired with icy toys or fingers creates a unique “fire and ice” experience.
5. Create a Cool (Not Cold) Sexy Atmosphere
Sex isn't simply a bodily affair—it's an environmental affair as well. When it's summer, a cooler environment prolongs sex and makes it appear more engrossing.
These are a couple of hints on how to cool the mood:
Draw curtains and dim lights to filter direct sunlight;
Use blue or purple lights to give a cooling visual stimulus;
Run a fan or air conditioner—gentle breezes on naked skin can be part of the experience.
Bonus tip: A fan blowing over lube-slathered skin creates surprising, subtle shivers.
6. Stay Hydrated!
And last, but far from least: drink water.
Dehydration not only zaps your energy and mood, but also arousal and natural lubrication. Have a bottle of cold water or an electrolyte drink on hand during and after sex. Breaks to drink are a must—you will notice.
Just because it’s hot outside doesn’ mean your sex life needs to cool down. With a little creativity (and maybe a few ice cubes), that summer sweat can actually turn up the heat in all the right ways.
